俗语大全之对事不对人

              
对事不对人；对应英文：On the wrong things;
              
带著爱与公平来管教：对事不对人，以理而非以力服人。对应英文：With love and justice to discipline: on the wrong things, Daniel not submit by force.
              
对人不对事： 如果你的目标是这个人（“你是个恶心的作者”），而不是他们的行为，你会惹恼他们，使他们心存戒备，或是感觉受到伤害。对应英文：Ad hominem: if your goal is this person ("you're a lousy writer"), rather than their behavior, you will annoy them, make them feel alert, or feel hurt.
              
如果他能避免这样的错误，并且注意在发表评论时，对事不对人，那么他或许会发现自己非常适合目前这种局面。对应英文：If he can avoid such mistakes, and pay attention to comment, on the wrong things, he may find himself ideally suited to the situation.
              
他的很多批评，都是“对事不对人”的，不过，有些关于曾国藩的批评，被有心人传给曾国藩，曾当然觉得左忘恩负义。对应英文：Many of his critics, is "on the wrong things", however, some of the criticism of Zheng Guofan, was a pass to Zheng Guofan, who of course think that the left devoid of gratitude.
              
对事不对人；或对事无情，对人要有情；或做人第一，做事其次。对应英文：On the wrong things; or something cruel, for people to love; or life first, followed by work.
              
和人争论时，你可以控制住自己的脾气，真正做到对事不对人么？对应英文：And people's arguments, you can control your temper, really do the wrong thing?
              
做不到的事，别乱说；伤害人的事，不能说；讨厌的事，对事不对人的说；对应英文：To do or not to do, don't talk nonsense; injury of people, can not say; hate things, on the wrong things to say;
              
切忌过度理性，对负面情绪视而不见，认为处理冲突是对人不对事；对应英文：Avoid excessive rationality, negative emotion to pay no heed to, think dealing with conflict is wrong;
              
几年后，你可能会变得成熟一点，并且会意识到那些都只是对事不对人。对应英文：After a few years, you will become mature, and realise that it was just the wrong.
              
对人不对事： 如果你的目标是这个人（“你是个恶心的作者”），而不是他们的行为，你会惹恼他们，使他们心存戒备，或是感觉受到伤害。对应英文：Ad hominem: if your goal is this person ("you're a lousy writer"), rather than their behavior, you will annoy them, make them feel alert, or feel hurt.
              
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